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Hi shrek I was terrified of my NM. She knew it and used it against me. I understand the terror from a child's point of view as she would often fly into a rage. As i got older i would stand up to her, but I soon learnt this got me nowhere as she just found different ways to frighten me. I guess I was...

Hi Mel Yes, you are not alone. My NM was very fond of "You know I love you" It was a phrase she would attach after she'd asked me to do something. There was never any affection. If I tried to cuddle her, she would push me away. I could feel the reaction. Trying to get affection from her wa...

Hi there everyone I'm new to this site. For the past two years I've been struggling to come to terms with the death of my mother who had NPD. Things were never good between us,but came to a head when my Uncle died. She spent the last few months of his life manipulating him and it made me feel sick. ...