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hi there only found this form last night, so I thought i'd ask a question ... was anybody else totally unloved by their parent ? it is the case with my NM I NEVER had cuddles (apart from once when i was 6yrs old/ which frightened the living daylights out of me!!!) I was NEVER EVER told ''i love you'...

Dear RainKeeper Firstly I am so very sorry for your loss, Henry was (and still is) as massive part of who you are today ... In my opinion, you need time for YOU, please let the rest of the family worry about your NM !! Until you feel well enough, and have mourned enough, only then can you be truely ...

hi there well , i think you are already VERY intune, with how exactly to handle your NM , and i think you are doing a brilliant job !! all you have to do now , is continue the same 'distancing' you are already practicing, when YOUR baby is born ... DO NOT allow your NM to take control of anything at...

Hi there ... I have only just, this evening,found this site, your post was the 3rd i had read, and i felt so strongly, i 'joined' so i could reply to you, so here goes ... Basically , like you , i'm the daughter of an aggressive NM, and i too have an Father whom enabled ( please note past tense used...