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Beth, I did not have a similar relationship with either of my parents. Everything I have learned has been a result of being married to my husband (nearly ex now). He spent so many years convincing me I was the problem but there was always this voice in me that can saying, "if it's me, then how ...

:?: I left my passive-aggressive husband of 15 years 6 months ago (had been agreed 3 years prior to end once my education was done but this only heightened his behaviors). When I learned to finally identify the crazy making and stop engaging him the marriage spiraled out of control. This included an...